No. 5 MORGAN and THE RETURN OF THE NOT QUITE INSIDE NOT QUITE OUTSIDE MAN

If you have read my last entry you would know that I have been pondering the future of this project.
If you haven’t read my last entry you can read it now and when you finish it you will come to learn that I have been pondering the future of this project.
Or alternatively you can read the last few sentences again and when you get to the end of this sentence you will have been informed at least three times that I have been pondering the future of this project.

Yes it’s been fun so far but seriously, how long exactly am I going to do this? And why am I really doing it? Such questions plagued me! But then if I was unsure about the future then there was someone amongst my strangers, the very people who I was unsure about who could help me!
I am talking about my first coffee recipient, "No.1 Greg," the guitarist-illustrator-screenwriter-photographer.
Why enlist a guitarist-illustrator-screenwriter-photographer to answer my questions? Because Greg can predict the future!
Yes he can!
No, I’m not nuts and no neither is he! For amongst Greg’s many other professions Greg is also an astrologer and I decided to enlist in his cosmic fortune-telling abilities!

When I first met Greg at Café Boungiorno I was initially drawn to him because his table was positioned in such a way that it was neither, inside or outside the café. It was literally smack bang in the middle of the opened glass doors. It was bizarre! I immediately became obsessed. I was bothered so much with trying to decide whether he was inside or outside that I ended up talking to him.
Needless to say when he suggested we meet at Café Boungiono again I was very intrigued to see where he would be sitting! I was FAR more excited about this than any astrological wisdom or mystical jiggery pokery he may to tell me.
But alas when I arrived there was no Greg!
It was I who had to decide where to sit. Shit!
But then I spied the very table at which Greg was sitting on that Friday night only a month ago to find it had been MOVED! It was a hot day so the glass doors were shut providing no chance for any table, man or animal to be neither outside or inside the café.

So where was the table now? Inside or Outside I sense you thinking. (I can now sense you thinking how it is that I can ‘sense you thinking.’ Just accept it. I now sense you thinking that just saying I can isn’t really adequate proof at all and that I’m talking crap. But then I just illustrated my point didn’t I! Confused aren’t you. See. I just proved it again)
However, I have decided that I will not reveal whether the table was inside or outside just yet and you will have to wait. This is because I’m an arsehole.

When "No. 1 Greg" arrived I was a bit excited.
Now whether you believe in astrology and other such hocus pocus or not, one can’t get a little bit tingly moments before their future is about to be foretold.
Now when I say tingly, I perhaps maybe mean I was carrying on like a big girls blouse.
Ooohh! Would he tell me all about my true love? Would I be rich? Famous? Would I get to meet Bert Newton? And most importantly when were they going to freakin’ release the complete series of the Wonder Years on DVD!?

Unfortunately Greg couldn’t tell me that. But the bloke at JB Hi-fi did! "Wow you should be an astrologer!’ I said to him. He didn’t seem to get what I was talking about. But I’m generally used to that kind of reaction from people now.

But back to Greg. According to his chart my sun sign is Leo, my rising sign is Aquarius and I have a number of planets aligned in my 6th and 7th houses.
Yeah I know! Who’d of thought hey!
But apparently this means my life will be dominated by creativity, the spotlight, working very hard and struggling for the approval of people in authoritative positions. That last two bits sucked balls a bit but it could have been worse. At least he didn’t say I would never meet Bert Newton.

But I was really hoping Greg’s analysis of the mighty planets would give some sort of hint about what was going on with this bothering strangers thing.
It was then that Greg looked at my immediate future and said the next two years will be mostly centered on people and relationships. He said that closeness with people would become a very dominant part of my life in the next while.
I got very excited! Bert Newton was a person! Though he didn’t say the words ‘Bert’ or ‘Newton’ at all I was convinced Greg was basically saying I would marry Bert Newton within the next two years. Brilliant! High 5’s all round!

And though the stars didn’t say "You should go and meet strangers for coffee," the idea that I’d be spending more time with people gave me a bit of a confidence boost. I mean it may have been vague, but if people were going to be my thing for the next while, then I was certainly taking a step in the right direction. I suddenly felt a lot more accepting of the whole project. I bid Greg farewell feeling more at ease and generally more positive about what I was doing.

So the next day I strode into the Myer Centre feeling more confident and self-assured. Without much thinking at all I spotted a guy wearing a brown hat reading a newspaper and waltzed right up to him.
He asked a lot of questions about why I wanted to have coffee with him and I was pretty certain he was going to reject me. Even when he’d said yes and we lined up at Gloria Jeans something seemed hesitant about him.
I was starting to feel a little bit uncomfortable. I think he sensed this because he started to look a bit uncomfortable too. This seemed to increase the closer we got to the teller.
I wanted to tell him he didn’t have to worry about having a coffee with me if he didn’t want to. And then he began to open his mouth so it looked like he was going to save me the trouble.
"I feel kinda bad about this.."
Here we go.
"..It’s just I’m getting a free coffee out of you for this.."
You got to be joking I thought! What a lame reason to bail on me! This man was clearly a disgrace, a felon, a criminal!
"That’s ok," I said, waiting to see what this vile creature would do next.
"MM.. well…maybe…I’ll buy you one as well then."
Me one as well? Me one AS WELL! I fell in love with him immediately!
He had genuinely felt bad! And he was going to have not one, but at least two coffees with me! He was in for the long haul!! This man was clearly a star, a legend, an angel!
And right from that second a great meeting of the minds took place! It was an inspired, flowing interaction full of connecting and conversing and laughing and inspiring, just the sort of communication Greg had talked about.

THE MORGAN FACT FILE!
AGE: 24
STATUS: Married.
FAVORITE SONG: Humming Birds by Seals and Crofts
FAVORITE FILM: The Big Lebowski
FAVORITE BOOK: The Mold in Dr Florey’s Coat: The Discovery of Penicillin
FAVORITE YEAR OF LIFE: Each year has been an improvement on the last. Three years ago life was great and now life is even better and he has been getting happier and happier which has been very gratifying for him.

GOAL FOR NEXT 12 MONTHS: To be useful. Morgan is on holidays now and he feels that he isn’t doing much and wants to contribute as much as he can to the world. He doesn’t feel complete in himself unless he’s doing something good for someone. What a great guy!!
I told Morgan I didn’t feel complete without my arms, legs and head.
Morgan laughed at what was really a lame joke.
I liked him even more now.

SOMETHING THAT EXCITES MORGAN IS: Learning how things work. He’s fascinated by popular science and the where’s, why’s and how’s of the world around him.

SOMETHING THAT PISSES MORGAN OFF IS: Morgan tries hard not to think about these things, but he is frustrated by people who never question things or who don’t consider that perhaps where, when and to whom they were born may be a significant reason behind the beliefs they have.

A BELIEF MORGAN WOULD INSTILL IN PEOPLE IF HE HAD THE POWER OF BRAINWASHING IS: To make people question things and the world around them.
To Morgan it doesn’t matter what you believe but it’s how you chose to believe it.

A QUESTION MORGAN DECIDED TO ASK ME WAS… My life story. ANSWER: My life story.

THOUGHTS WHEN I INITIALLY ASKED HIM FOR COFFEE: That I wanted his newspaper. Then that someone had dared me to approach him. Then that he might be on some TV program. Then guilt for getting a free coffee out of me.

THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS: That I have a title and structure for what I’m doing but that my motivations for doing it are probably somewhat deeper. That I should keep this as an ongoing project because it seems that I am searching for something that I may not quite know yet.

OTHER THINGS YOU MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT MORGAN!
*Morgan finds a parrot that sings the theme song to ‘The Golden Girls’ more threatening than a kitten whose paws leak out red biro.
*His wife however is PETRIFIED of kittens! In fact she has nightmares about them regularly!
*Morgan is obviously not a kitten (or he’d have a different wife)
* Morgan is from Newcastle and has been here two years to study dentistry.
* Morgan used to regularly rock up at peoples houses with a bunch of mates and some gardening equipment and offer to do their gardening for free.
* Some of his mates are of Middle-Eastern background and after September 11 the extent of people not accepting their offer declined so radically that it just became to ‘awkward’ and they sadly decided to stop doing it.

I was touched by Morgan’s genuine interest in humanity and goodwill and was saddened that he wasn’t mowing other people’s lawns anymore.
Mainly because it meant the chances of someone doing my lawn for free had now decreased, but also the idea of people losing their will to do good for others didn’t sit to well with me.
But then Morgan told me that his fellow do-gooders met every 3rd Sunday of the month at the State Gallery for an event called ‘Soul Food.’
I was pretty hungry so my eyes lit up when he mentioned food.
So Morgan went on to say it was put on by the Baha’i society.
Baha'i was obviously some new restaurant and so I asked him to tell me more.
Somehow I’d got it wrong, (a rare occurrence) and The Baha'i Society was actually a sort of new religion with a goal to unite humanity and to acknowledge that all religions, people, cultures and nations were equal and had something important to say.
With eyes somewhat watering Morgan talked of a hope for a world where humans loved and appreciated each other and the environment around them.
I couldn’t help be moved by Morgan’s passion and he offered to meet the same time the next day and give me books I might find equally as inspirational.
I told him I couldn’t as I was going to be walking around with a giant eyeball on my head.

(See above. Ha! And you thought I was a lier!)

But I could an hour after that.

So we arranged to meet again and he promised to get ME a coffee when we did.
This was awesome! My strangers were asking me for coffee now!
And this was just the beginning! Who knows if I played my cards right maybe they’d be giving me cars and helicopters soon too!
I hoped this is what Morgan meant by there being something deeper to what I was doing.
I wasn’t sure if there actually was or wasn’t something deeper but it didn’t matter. To just be interacting and strengthening my closeness to people generally as Greg suggested was good enough for me. Particularly if I was getting free stuff every now and then!

Until next time Mark, Morgan and Greg (again!)

PS. It was Inside.

No. 4 MICHELLE

Once again I found myself walking through the Myer Center Food Court, a place that is fast becoming the official "Can I Get You A Coffee" meeting place.
But only hours before this I had a pretty odd experience. Since I started this project, strangers were now beginning to approach me!

There I was on my laptop at Café Bourngiono trying to understand a bizarre message fellow comedian Trav Nash had left on my ‘My Space’ profile.*

*For those who aren’t ‘with it,’ My Space is an online community where you basically have your own web page where you can display a profile, your favorite movies, books, sports, episode of ‘Growing Pains’ and other interests as well as photos and even videos of yourself. Other people can view this profile and if they like you and your favorite Kirk Cameron moment they can ‘add’ you to their ‘Friends’ page. There are more than 2 billion people on the planet with a My Space profile! Therefore making it possible to have 2 billion friends!!
This will come in very handy if some drunk guy decides to shove you in a pub!

Suddenly a pretty young girl walked behind me and said "Hey add me if you want. I’m listed as ‘Grey eyes.’ And then she sat at a table close by.
So I typed "Grey eyes" into the search engine but the profile of some angry black guy from Colorado came up.
Suddenly I was intrigued. Maybe this sweet girl had a mental disorder where she thought she was actually a gangster rapper. Oh this was GREAT!! The exact sort of person I'd need in a pub-fight scenario!!I noticed she was sitting with an older woman who I deduced was her concerned mother or carer or parole officer.
"Hey! Nice beard!" I called to her pointing at her photo.
"That’s not me," she laughed. "Refine the search to people in Adelaide."
Somewhat disappointed I found her actual profile, added her as ‘friend’ and strangely didn’t talk to her again until she’d left me a message on my profile the next morning.
What a surreal way to meet someone! A ‘real’ person had asked to be my ‘internet’ friend. Usually this happens in the reverse order and often the police and restraining orders follow from that.
As odd as it was I thought it was great!! These online communities were seemingly making people more approachable and friendly to each other in the wider world! I certainly was finding people were a lot more open to me and my strange project than I was expecting.
But then I was very good at selecting people who seemed quite approachable. Like MICHELLE for example, who I found sitting quietly in the Myer Center finishing off a vanilla soft serve ice cream.
So how does one appear approachable? Mmm. I’m not sure. She had frizzy hair. But so does the Bride of Frankenstein and she’s hardly approachable, even in her better moods.
But my assessment was obviously correct because when I asked her for coffee, rather than spitting on my face or shooting me with a crossbow while tiny devils flew out of her ears and stabbed me in the eye with pitchforks she said ‘yes.’
Interestingly she had actually seen me perform on stage about 6 months ago at PJ Obriens and apparently I had talked in length to her boyfriend Jason after the show.
So if she’s seen me before was she really a stranger then? Mmmm. Would I have to snatch her hot chocolate away and give it to someone else instead!
I contemplated it.
But then I felt bad about not remembering her or her beloved Jason and having to call off our drink might be the last straw and indeed cause the little devils to fly out her ears and poke me in the eyes with pitch forks. So I decided she WAS a stranger but just one who had watched me from afar.
Actually this definition makes her sound like a stalker.
Actually it didn’t at all until I brought it to everyone’s attention just now. But just for the record NO Michelle is NOT stalking me or anyone else I’m sure. Though I can’t be 100% sure of this fact, I mean she seemed lovely and genuinely harmless but I don’t know her 100% well enough to say definitely that she isn’t a stalker. Who knows, maybe she was stalking this ‘Jason’ guy. I certainly don’t remember him! Maybe he doesn’t even exist at all!!! Maybe she’s completely delusional, had escaped from an institution and was about to blow up the entire world and I was the only one who could stop her.. alright perhaps I’m taking this way to far and I should probably change subject now before I get poked in the eye by little devils.

Michelle has only just recently moved to Adelaide from Perth to be with Jason (who for the record I am CERTAIN is real) after being in a long distance relationship with him since 2004. Leaving her family and close friends behind has definitely been a challenge and it’s Michelle’s ambition to start up a home massage and beauty-therapy clinic here.

THE MICHELLE FACT FILE

AGE: 35
STATUS: Relationship
FAVORITE SONG: Depends on the mood. Currently it’s John Meyer
FAVORITE MOVIE: Currently ‘Step Up’
FAVORITE BOOK: ‘Cause of the Soul’. Thomas Moore.
FAVORITE YEAR: 2004. WHY: The year she finally felt a strong direction in her life accompanied with a feeling of everything ‘coming together’ after years of self-analysis and spiritual investigation.

GOAL FOR NEXT 12 MONTHS: To achieve independence in Adelaide. i.e. to get a place of her own and get her business up and running.

SOMETHING THAT EXCITES MICHELLE IS: Achievement

SOMETHING THAT PISSES MICHELLE OFF IS: People who lie and manipulate when they could just be direct and honest about what they want out of other people.

A BELIEF MICHELLE WOULD INSTILL IN PEOPLE IF SHE HAD THE POWER OF BRAINWASHING IS: You can do anything you want to!

A QUESTION MICHELLE DECIDED TO ASK ME WAS: What’s your background?
ANSWER: My mother was born in Italy and moved down here with her family when she was 4. I’m only half Italian but tend to become more Italian in manner depending on how many Italians are in the room.

THOUGHTS WHEN I INITIALLY ASKED HER FOR COFFEE: Apparently Michelle actually saw me walk past, had recognised me and was quite intrigued when I’d looked back. She enjoyed the spontaneity and felt my approach was open and sincere.
Michelle also was feeling in a bit of a rut and was feeling a lack of spontaneity so having something out of the ordinary like this happen felt refreshing.

THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS: That she’d had an interesting time.

OTHER THINGS YOU MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT MICHELLE:
*Michelle finds a puppy who can breathe fire more threatening than a shark who is petrified of Justin Timberlake’s music.
*Michelle admits she likes Justin Timberlake. Particularly the song ‘Rock Your Body’
*Michelle therefore is obviously not a shark.
*Michelle’s grandmother is Lebanese.
*Michelle is interested in spirituality.

Meeting strangers has become quite fun and I’m starting to get quite good at it. But really what’s the point? And how long am I going to keep it up? Will I stop when I meet a certain number? Maybe I won’t stop? How long into the future am I going to keep doing this? I started to worry about it. Probably quite unnecessarily. But then I suddenly realised one of my strangers could help me. If I was concerned with the future of this project and about the future in general there was someone indeed who could help answer my questions. So I decided to track him down.……..

Until Next Time,
Mark, Michelle and Grey Eyes.

No. 3 KEVIN

Due to recent success I decided to once again visit the Myer Center Food Court to find my next victim.

I also decided to stop referring to these people as victims.
This is for two reasons.

First, I don’t want you think I plan to kill them. You may get excited, become under the impression this is a tale of blood-fest and horror, find that it isn’t and all I did was have coffee with them, become furious and demand I pay for your time.

Secondly victim implies these people are not willing counterparts and have been physically forced into our exchange beyond their fancy. This is certainly not the case and I like to think they may even enjoy themselves. I guess I can’t guarantee this, hey they may not enjoy themselves at all, but at least they can say they’ve had a FREE coffee that day and heck how many people can rest their heads on their pillow saying that?

Maybe quite a few but at least they have an interesting story to tell at work or at a party or to their wife during dinner. Even if the story begins with the words .. "Boy I met this absolute dick-finger today…."

If No.3 ‘Kevin’ does indeed use such a phrase to describe me then I will feel quite bad as he didn’t even get a free coffee out of it.
"Sure you can meet me," he said with a smile. "But don’t worry about the coffee."
This was a great start to our meeting and immediately I had a good feeling about him. I think this may have had something to do with the fact I’d just saved myself 6 bucks.

What made me approach Kevin in the first place was that he was looking at a map. Part of me hoped he was an explorer or an archaeologist and that by meeting him we would end up having an adventurous journey involving ancient ruins, stolen artifacts, spiders, Mummies and Sean Connery’s beard.

Then I got excited! He had luggage too! YES! He WAS going on an adventurous journey! But as I got closer I saw the map was just of Adelaide bus-routes.
DAMN! At least I was right about the journey. It was just a far less exciting one involving pubic transport.

But there could still be stolen artifacts involved! They were just most likely to be from Cash Converters than from a temple. And there could still be beards! But they were just more likely to belong to some old Italian ladies rather than Sean Connery.

It turned out that Kevin’s journey actually involved a trip to Olympic Dam.
Exactly what Kevin was doing there or what he does in general was a bit hard to comprehend and to be honest I don’t think I’ve got my head around it.
It’s something about computers. Yep. Computers. And slightly more sophisticated than playing solitaire.

Based in Sydney, Kevin works for a company that builds and maintains the infrastructure, cabling and networking of computer systems for large corporations. His mission to Olympic Damn involved setting up a computer workstation in the control-room of a mining site there.
I must’ve looked confused because he pulled out a very intriguing floor plan of the control-room for me to have a look at. I’d never seen a floor plan of a control room before and I immediately fantasised we were secret agents plotting our next dangerous mission. YES! AWESOME! I was in tight black latex crawling through an air conditioning duct and I could see infra-red trick alarms which I would have to dodge using stealthy acrobatics taught to me by an ancient Jujitsu master in Tibet. And part of this whole espionage for me was about avenging my masters death. Ruthless drug-embezzling barstards! You will pay!! He brought me up like a father!! Me and Agent Kevin will make you sorry! Dojo Xiang-Chen I will avenge you! With honor! I love you my dear teacher!

I realised I was staring off into space. Apparently there are cultures on this planet who consider this a sign of rudeness so I stopped fantasising and reluctantly returned my attention once again to Kevin. But as a compromise I still pretended to be wearing black latex.

THE KEVIN FACT FILE
AGE: 63
STATUS: Separated with two children.

FAVORITE SONG: None in particular but likes the sounds of John Farnham

FAVORITE MOVIE: Die Hard. (Suddenly the espionage fantasy didn’t seem so inappropriate and I was sure Kevin too had been fantasising.)

FAVORITE YEAR OF LIFE: 1999. WHY: In this year Kevin was apart of the team behind designing and installing the computer systems used in the running of the Olympic Games. Computer equipment used in events such as the regatta and triathlon was all thanks to our man Kevin.

GOAL FOR NEXT 12 MONTHS: To retire.

SOMETHING THAT EXCITES KEVIN IS: Designing and getting involved in ideas.

SOMETHING THAT PISSES KEVIN OFF IS: People not wanting to pay you for the work you’ve done.

A BELIEF KEVIN WOULD INSTILL IN PEOPLE IF HE HAD THE POWER OF BRAINWASHING IS: To be yourself.

A QUESTION KEVIN DECIDED TO ASK ME WAS… "How is this whole thing working out for you?"
ANSWER: It’s interesting. I’m wondering why on Earth I’m doing this.. but it’s still fun so I’m going to keep doing it.

THOUGHTS WHEN I INITIALLY ASKED HIM FOR COFFEE: That I wanted something and that I was probably going to give him a little card with a religious message on it.

THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS: That it was good to meet me.

OTHER THINGS YOU MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT KEVIN!:
*Kevin looks like newsreader Kevin Crease.
*Kevin had an operation 6 months ago which prevented a heart problem that both his mother and sister died of when they too were exactly 63 years of age! Freaky!
"Well that was lucky!" I said. "Looks like you won!"
Kevin looked at me.
I suddenly realized what I’d said was in poor taste. I’d basically made fun of his dead family. Shit. What was he going to do? Suddenly he began to open his mouth. Oh no! Was he going to yell at me?! Cry?! Have a go at MY dead family. I just wouldn’t cope if he started on my beloved Dojo Xiang-Chen.
Luckily what came out of Kevin’s mouth was a hearty laugh and I breathed a sigh of relief.
*Kevin laughs when he should be offended.
*Kevin’s son has just moved to Adelaide.
Ahoy Kevin’s son, we people of Adelaide welcome you to our lands!

I left Kevin and my new imaginary leotard behind feeling quite positive. This was becoming a lot of fun. Yes maybe it was still an odd thing to be doing, but who cares! It’s positive, it’s fun and maybe it’s even encouraging a sense of trust and community in the city. And that surely is a good thing particularly when you don't consider other people as 'victims' on any level.

Until Next Time,
Mark and Kevin

No.2 ‘MARK AS WELL’

Yes that’s right. No.2’s name is also Mark. Thought I better clear this up now just in case you thought I’d given up on this idea and started taking myself out for coffees instead.
Not that isn’t an enjoyable or interesting experience. I sit at a table on my own and look at the wall and stuff. It’s great reading it really is…but this isn’t the time for that. This time is for a man I call ‘Mark As well.’

But before meeting Mark As well, I had my first ‘No.’ Personally I was quite surprised! Just to look at him I thought he’d be up for it. He had long dark hair, was frowning slightly, quite nerdy and was reading a comic book. I thought he’d be the outgoing type. Oh well.

Mark As well was sitting in the Myer Centre food court right next to an Optus phone kiosk. He was wearing a nice blue shirt and was eating a muffin and my first thought was that he worked in the Optus kiosk and loved his job so much that he took his breaks as close to his work as possible.
He said yes to a coffee without hesitation and as I came back with two flat whites I realised I hadn’t properly introduced myself yet.
But as I put the coffees down on the table he quickly piped, " Hey my name’s Mark as well."
Suddenly I was puzzled. I guess I had introduced myself.
Then he asked ‘So, what was your name?’
I was confused. "Mark.." I said. "As well.’
"As well?"
"As well."
Mmm. I decided not to press the issue. Mark As well didn’t work for Optus. He’d just finished a law degree and was on work experience in the Legal Aid department for the The Institute of Aboriginal Affairs.

HERE’S THE MARK FACT FILE:
AGE: 24
STATUS: Single.
FAVORITE SONG: Adagio for strings- Samuel Barbel/The Nothing Song- Sigur Ros.
FAVORITE FILM: One Flew Over the Cukoos Nest.
FAVORITE BOOK: Brave New World- Aldous Huxley
FAVORITE YEAR OF LIFE: Nov 2005-2006. WHY: Previously Mark has been shy and a bit of a hermit. But thanks to an increase in activities such as public speaking, Mark has challenged his comfort zone and experienced a year of great personal growth.

GOAL FOR NEXT 12 MONTHS: To attain his driver’s license.

SOMETHING THAT EXCITES MARK IS: People standing up for an unpopular idea because they believe it’s the right thing.

Suddenly I was frightened. Who did he mean by people with unpopular ideas? People like Hitler? Chairman Mao? Or even worse, Jesse McArtney or James Blunt? But this fear turned into glee at the prospect I may have someone who’d support me in my idea to find surfaces that are accompanied by "Caution. Slippery When Wet" and re-pathe them using Bon Jovi albums.
(Get it? ‘Slippery When Wet??’ Ha ha. sorry.)

SOMETHING THAT PISSES MARK OFF IS: The amount of hair his sister’s new dog leaves around the house.

A BELIEF MARK WOULD INSTILL IN PEOPLE IF HE HAD THE POWER OF BRAINWASHING IS: To not hurt one another.

A QUESTION MARK DECIDED TO ASK ME WAS… "Do you think this project of yours is going to work?"
ANSWER: I’m not sure. It’s only the beginning. It’s been fun and I’ve been getting a lot of interesting ideas out of it, but I don’t want people to think I’m just using them for material.

THOUGHTS WHEN I INITIALLY ASKED HIM FOR COFFEE: That I had chronic shyness or a social phobia and that I had asked him for a coffee as an exercise my shrink had set me and that he’d better say yes or I might get crushed and spend the rest of the night under my bed.

THOUGHTS AFTERWARDS: Good, interesting and that more stuff like this should happen.

OTHER THINGS YOU MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT MARK AS WELL!!
* Mark finds a cow covered with poisonous spikes more threatening than a man- eating lion that can only walk backwards.
*It was Mark’s birthday! (What a great present I must have been!)
*Mark obviously likes to treat himself to a muffin on his birthday.
*Mark is a vegetarian because he once saw David Beckham wearing kangaroo skin boots. I’m assuming this was on the TV and not at his local Bi-lo. Because it’s fairly likely David Beckham would wear something more comfortable like sneakers or ugg boots at Bi-lo.

I walked out of the Myer Centre together chuckling at Mark’s idea that I could be so socially inept that I might sleep under my bed. I wondered if that’s where the long harried comic nerd was going to sleep tonight. Not because I’m insinuating he has social problems, but because it looked like he was reading a scary comic and that’s where I always sleep when I get scared. Well since my parents have refused to let me sleep in their bed anyway.

Until next time,
Mark and Mark As well.

No.1 GREG.

YES!! It starts. The gun has fired and I have begun the race!
I bought my first stranger a coffee! Actually it’s not a race at all. I don’t why I made the analogy. I just like the idea of firing a gun to start this off.
Not a real gun of course I just pointed my index finger in the air and made a ‘bbscoooh" noise.
Awesome noises aside, here is how I met my first stranger..

I was walking around town for almost half an hour going into different café’s looking for someone to have coffee with. How on Earth was I going to approach someone?How the hell was I ACTUALLY going to do this?? And why the hell was anyone going to agree to do it?!
I was starting to feel very nervous, apprehensive and extremely negative about the whole thing. The way someone might feel just before they are about to be shot out of a cannon. Though far worse because I wasn’t wearing a helmet.

I studied the loads of people sitting outside Café Buongiorno but no one seemed approachable! They either looked to busy or too serious or to crazy or kissing someone or were a dog or had glasses or had hair.
See NO ONE looked approachable! I decided this was just a dumb idea and I decided to give up.

THE END.

So there you go. I know it didn’t last long but hey.. we all have stupid ideas don’t we.
As I’d fully accepted my defeat I briefly glanced once more at the kissing couple, the dog and a man with hair and smiled at the idea of not bothering them.
Though the man with hair was sitting more inside the café, than outside of it.
Though actually… his table wasn’t really inside the café enough to be outside. But yet not really outside enough to be inside it. Do you follow?
I kept walking. But then I stopped.

I took a second look. Outside or inside I wondered. DAMN him he was both!! Or was he neither! It infuriated me! Even more infuriating was the fact he didn’t seem bothered by it at all! How could he be so calm about sitting like that?! Can you believe it?! I was going to have to run over and drag his table a few inches for him! But what way would I drag it?!? Further inside or outside?!! Damn it!! I was about to die!! I could feel it! Then he made eye contact with me and I realised that I was staring and that I had to stop or he’d call the police or the army or my mother.
But I had to do something. And then it dawned on me! That something was surely to ask him for coffee! So I did. And he smiled and said without hesitation ‘sure.’

Not quite inside-not quite outside man was slim with a ponytail and a kind face.
I decided to call Not quite inside-not quite outside man NQINQOM for short.
I then shortened that to Greg. Conveniently this was his name.

Greg was working on an astrology chart for his friend’s mother when I met him.
As well as an astrologer, Greg is also a professional illustrator and is the guy who does the pictures in those ‘How to Draw’ books. Not only that, Greg can play guitar quite well and aspires to branch into photography and screenwriting!
I presume he will start a business where you go to him for an astrology reading and rather than just telling your future he actually delivers it in the form of an animated cartoon musical adventure and then takes photos of you as you watch it.

THE GREG FACT FILE
AGE: 37
STATUS: Single
FAVORITE SONG: None
FAVORITE MOVIE: None
FAVORITE BOOK: None

Right now Greg must look like a rather negative person. Or boring as batshite.
Rather, Greg actively refrains from judging the quality of a piece of art over another preferring to appreciate the work in its own right. Therefore you probably will not see Greg as a judge on Australian Idol any time soon.

GOAL FOR THE NEXT 12 MONTHS: To achieve semi-professional work as a photographic artist.

SOMETHING THAT PISSES GREG OFF IS manipulative forces. Mainly those in authority in such areas as government and the music industry who manipulate artists and people to fit a certain ideal rather than allow them full expression.

SOMETHING THAT EXCITES GREG IS: Beautiful women.
Granted, men like women. The survival of our race depends on it. Then there’s Greg.
A man who believes the human female form at its point of maturity is the single most beautiful phenomenon in the universe. For over twenty minutes Greg passionately justified his fascination using Indian philosophy, intelligent design theory and his own illustrations (yes illustrations!) which he pulled out of a yellow folder. After his genuine and very sincere speech I could see that appreciating all the girls of the world was merely my conquest as a male specimen and I immediately forgave myself for all the times I’d picked up at the Arkaba.

A BELIEF GREG WOULD INSTILL IN PEOPLE IF HE HAD THE POWER OF BRAINWASHING IS: To realise they are as equally powerful and have equal potential to achieve the same heights as the next person.

A QUESTION GREG DECIDED TO ASK ME WAS… "So do you do standup do you?"
ANSWER: Yes. Yes I do. (Probably accompanied with a wink and click of the finger)

THOUGHTS WHEN I INITIALLY ASKED HIM FOR COFFEE: That he was very open to it and often meets people in a similar random manner.

OTHER THINGS YOU MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW ABOUT GREG!
*Greg knows someone who’s a friend of actor/comedian Jim Carey.
*Greg prefers not to have his photo taken. He fears it will steal his energy.
*Greg ordered a weak cuppaccino

I was very, very happy with my first coffee with a stranger. Yeah. This was a good thing to be doing. Conversation came very easily and there was loads more I wanted to ask but ran out of time! In fact so genuinely engaging was my time with Greg that I completely forgot to address how he could stand being neither inside or outside the café.
As I walked away I came to a shocking realisation! I to had been not quite inside or outside the café! For an entire hour and a half! What the buggers?!? How could I do this without losing my freakin’ mind?!
Wow. I had a feeling I’d grow somewhat by starting this project. But not like this!

It felt good! Empowered!

So now if you walk down a street and see someone sitting not quite inside or outside a café nodding at you with a huge smile on their face you’ll know it is me. Or Greg if he’s with a beautiful woman. Though it may not be Greg because such things don’t seem to phase him. Further you probably wont notice anyway because you’re not a freak and only a freak would even take the time to ponder something like that.

Until next time,
Mark and Greg.

I'M GOING TO BUY SOME STRANGERS COFFEE. HMMMM. WHY???

Are you asking or am I? We both are I guess. I don't really have an answer. I guess I want you to have some interesting reason to keep visiting my site. So is it going to be interesting? I don't know I haven't started doing it yet! It might be gobshite!! But I think it will be good. I mean it's pretty good so far. I mean nothings happened. I know that. But it's not boring....

But that's the point maybe. I feel like I'm becoming boring and not only that I'm getting bored. Not as in I have nothing to do but as in just bored in general. I have to make an effort to be interested in things I'm doing and the people I'm talking to. I feel flat and a little sad when doing the things I'm supposed to love and that's getting kinda worrying.

Well, there are exceptions..

I wasn't bored on Friday while traveling to my gig at Rhino Room.

I got excited by my taxi driver!

Very excited!

He was a Jamaican guy... I know!! Good already!.. and while we're driving there's a song on the radio I despise. I tell him this, he agrees, switches over and Michael Jackson's "Don't Stop Til You Get Enough" comes on.

"YEAH!" I shout. This somehow prompts my phone to ring which has Michael Jackson's "Wanna Be Startin Somethin" as the ring tone.

I'm so excited by the fact that two Michael Jackson songs are playing at the same time that I decide not to answer it (Sorry Craig) and I once again involuntarily shout "YEAH!"

The taxi driver is amused, and asks "So you like Michael Jackson?"

"YEAH!" I reply.

I then realise "YEAH!" are the only words I've said since being in the cab and in fear of appearing autistic I follow immediately with "Yes, Yes I do!"

He smiles and I swear this is true, pulls a portable DVD player from what seems like his right ear, presses play and the "Smooth Criminal" film clip starts immediately.

I lose my shit! Not one, not two, but THREE! Michael Jackson songs are playing at the same time! I can't contain myself "YEAH!YEAH!YEAH!" I shout.

The taxi driver is very happy as he knows he's going to get a big tip. He's wrong as I had no cash so pay with credit. Unlucky for him. But a GODSEND for me as I would have given him at least seventy dollars being so OUT OF MY MIND from that "triple-whammy-Jackson-palooza." (Shutup. What would you call it?!)

I want more of this caliber of excitement more often! Don't you?!

And this is WHY I'm embarking on this project!

As I got out of that cab I realised part of the thrill had come from the fact I didn't know this guy from a bar of soap.

How many other odd random people out there could return me to that place where my true passions lie and invigorate in me those endorphins which fire only when I'm being who I'm supposed to be.

Like a bar of soap, that Jamaican guy cleansed me and made me feel pure and I pictured myself standing in a shower rubbing him all over my naked chest. I then pictured ALL the people I was going to meet standing with us saying nice things to each other and rubbing each others chests.

This suddenly made me feel weird and uncomfortable and I swore to myself that I would never tell a soul what I'd just imagined.

Nevertheless I got excited. I'm going to meet some random, fun people and we're going to have a good time!! I want you to get excited too. So get three sets of speakers, face them in the direction of your listeny bits..(they're on either side of your face) and have yourself a "triple-whammy-Jackson-palooza!" cause I'm anticipating some exciting times ahead..